Monthly Archives: July 2013

Post 95. Laughing with Ali

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Alison was 20 and had quite a story to tell.  She wanted to be in India and help us in whatever way we needed help.   She moved in with us until she found her own place and  became my friend and little sister.   We really needed help with our music files and she played keyboard and loved to worship.  Tony appreciated her being the second member of our worship team.

When she was writing to us, she sent a photo of herself.  Jason was staying with us for a few days so I showed it to him.  He smiled and said, “Oh, maybe I should stay a little bit longer.”   On the first Sunday Ali was with us, I saw them talking to each other and I nudged Tony.   We knew something was going to happen.  Jason left soon after that.  A few days later, Ali and I were chatting and I casually asked her what she thought of him.  She calmly replied that he was “a nice guy, nothing more than that.”   I was sitting up on the rock the next day and Ali came up and sat next to me.  It looked as if she had been crying all night.  Her first words were, “Lin, I lied to you and I am so sorry.”  I couldn’t even imagine what she meant.  Then it all came out.   I found it all so funny.

She told me that a year earlier, Dudley Reed had shown the slides of his trip to India in her church.  There was a slide of Jason.  The minute she saw it, God told her he would be her husband.  She didn’t tell anyone about it.  When Jason left she didn’t know how or when she would see him again.

Letters from Ireland started arriving but Jason wasn’t showing any signs of commitment.  Ali needed to know what was going on.  Tony gave him a call and asked him what he was thinking and revved him up a bit.  He was just being cautious; very cautious.  Things started moving a bit and we were relieved that he was at least making some moves.

She moved into a little flat up the road from us.  It was just four steps up off the road.  The only place she had to hang her washing up was on the railing on her little veranda.  She would often find cows walking down the road with her underwear in their mouths.

One evening Ali and I were in our kitchen making tea.  It was Diwali and we were commenting about how nice and quiet it was at our place.  All the fireworks were going off higher up the mountain.  As I touched the switch on the kettle, someone threw a huge “bomb” under our house.  It was so loud.  We jumped off the ground and screamed and screamed.  We looked at each other as if we were surprised to still be alive.  We collapsed on the kitchen floor and laughed until we thought we would die.

Post 94. Chandra

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A young Nepali labourer came in one Sunday.  He sat on the edge of his chair through the whole meeting.  His name was Chandra.

Chandra was born in a small village in Nepal.  His father was a tantric witchdoctor.  He abandoned his wife and Chandra and took off to India.  Chandra was handed over to his grandmother who raised him for a few years before she died.  By that time, his mother re-married and didn’t want him around.  When he was eight his dad went back to Nepal and re-married.  His second wife wanted nothing to do with Chandra.  He started to work as a shepherd boy and did anything else he could do to make money.

At the age of thirteen, Chandra joined his uncle and a group of young Nepali boys and left his village.  They were going to work in India.   They walked over a hundred kilometres to the border, took a train and then some buses.  The only jobs he could get were in hard labour.  Two years later he went back to Nepal where his dad demanded that he give him his hard earned money.

When he realised there was no life for him in his village, Chandra set off for India again.  He hid under the seats and in the toilets on the train to Dehra Dun.  He jumped from one coach to the other hiding from the ticket officer.  As he got off the train, he was caught by the police and put into a children’s hostel in an Ashram.  It was there that he got his first year of education.  He learnt to read and write.  He was fifteen years old.  A year later he ran away again.

In Uttarkashi, he got a job clearing landslides.  One day he was caught in one and woke up in hospital.  His leg was badly damaged.  He had treatment for a month but left that place limping and using a walking stick.  There was no way he could get a job so he went from place to place sleeping in shops and anywhere he could find shelter.   Other Nepali labourers shared their food with him.

When he was twenty he got a job planting seedlings in bags of soil.  He was promised permanent work.  It wasn’t long before he realised there was a conspiracy going on.  He was working for someone else whose name was in the registry.  That person was sitting around, getting most of Chandra’s salary.  With the bit of money he had, he got on a bus and headed for Mussoorie.

Woodstock School was building a big auditorium.  There were many “coolies” needed to break rocks, put them in bags and carry them up the hill to the site.  Chandra qualified for the job.  Some students invited the labourers to watch a movie on the life of Jesus.  Chandra was totally taken in by it.  That night he had a dream: The building he was working on was completed.  There was a long stairway.  Jesus, dressed like a king, walked down towards Chandra and took his hand.

He asked around and was told about a little church down the hill in Barlowganj.  He came in, sat down and that was that.  He had found his family at last.

Post 93. Visitors

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Cousins!

Rigby and Sue brought Ryan and Leigh to visit us for the first time.  It was amazing to be with them again.  They came up in taxis from Delhi with other friends from Waverley.  They were so excited to see the sights that they drove the whole way with their heads out of the windows.  We met them at the taxi stand.  They all tumbled out of the car with soot-covered faces. We had such a good laugh.  With them was a young girl, Alison Francis who was from Hout Bay.  She had come to help us for six months.

Wilf the carpenter made a doll’s house for the girls and sent it with Sue.  Rig also bought us a video camera and we were able to film them opening their many gifts.  They had almost forgotten they had relatives.   They were very excited and there were many sweets and strange looking goodies all over the place.  It was fun to watch them being spoilt rotten.

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Tony took the guys on a prayer hike up to the source of the Ganga.  Jason had just been baptised in the little river down the hill from us.  A few days later he had his appendix removed.   The hike was a week later and we were praying that he would be well enough to go.  He seemed fine and they set off on their ten hour drive to Gomukh and spent the night there.  They hiked off the next day.  Jason woke up with chronic food poisoning.  He walked until he was almost crawling.  He wanted to die right there on that mountain.  Tony told him that wasn’t an option so he rode on a mule to the next stop.   He stayed there while they went up to Gangotri which was 10,250 feet above sea level.  They picked him up on the way down and drove ten hours along winding mountain roads back to Mussoorie.

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Sisters!

It was so nice having visitors.  We had fun showing them around Mussoorie and introducing them to our new friends.  Saying goodbye was hard.  I was glad Ali stayed behind with us.

When Sue got home, she showed Wilf and Val the video of the girls opening their presents.  It was only then that their hearts were settled about us being in India.  They could see where we lived and were relieved to see that the girls were healthy and happy.  The only thing Val had a problem with was how the girls sounded.   She had tears in her eyes when she said, “Sue, please can you ask Lin to do something about the girl’s accents?  They sound like little Indian kids.”   We had a good laugh.  What accents did she expect them to have?  Chinese?